If you want to hit it, you’ve got to work for it,
even especially if you are a married man like me.
Fortunately, I have a few tricks to make the magic happen. Two, in particular, work without fail.
So what are these two fail-proof tricks to knockin’ the boots?
- Doing the dishes
- Starting this site
Pretty unusual tactics, huh?
Well, they work. And I think that’s because they’re about so much more than doing the dishes or starting a website.
In fact, these two things are attractive to all people. They’ll help you bring the sexy back to all areas of your life – not just your romantic relationships.
1. Doing the dishes is really about being a servant.
- It sends a signal to my wife that I am willing to do the dirty work associated with keeping our relationship going.
- It lets her know in clear terms that we are a team, and I’m working for the greater good.
- It gives me credibility.
That type of earned credibility is attractive, period. For your partner, it builds a relational connectedness that breeds physical intimacy.
2. Starting this site is evidence that I am a man on a mission.
In launching this site, I took an active step toward following my passions and pursuing a greater purpose in my life and work. I love communicating, and I have made it my purpose to help others launch lives that matters.
- It reminds my wife that I am a passionate person.
- It gives her proof that I have the courage to put myself out there.
- It puts us on an adventure together.
That type of deep meaning and adventure is contagious to everyone. In a romantic relationship, it’s a catalyst for physical passion.
Want to take it a step further and venture into a Don Juan territory?
Bonus: Be a servant on a mission.
- Identify areas where you can serve.
- Identify causes that you are passionate about. (Hint: what do you daydream about?)
- Identify where the two overlap and start with a single step.
- If you’re passionate about cupcakes, bake a batch for the office.
- If your thing is pets, adopt one (or six) from the shelter.
- If you love fashion design, start a fashion designers forum – or just join one.
Follow these steps and I guarantee that you’ll bring sexy back to your life.
And you might just get lucky.
Question: Do you typically associate service with adventure and pursuing your passions? Let us know what you think by leaving a comment.
photo courtesy of: Allen Jae Lee